My Journal
How to Un-Gay Your Gay: Spoiler Alert—You Can’t
My mother sent me to a psychologist to cure my homosexuality. I couldn’t wait to go. We had very different ideas about how this was going to end.Let me begin with my position on homosexuality. I am gay. Very gay. Pro-gay. I have been gay for as long as I have been...
Why Winning Arguments Can Destroy Relationships
There Are No Winners and Losers in LoveThe moment I decided I had to win every conflict, I also began learning how to lose relationships.When I was seventeen years old, I made one of the most important decisions of my life. It was also one of the worst. I decided I...
My Mother Found My Gay Boyfriend—and Told Dad to Get the Shotgun
What if the lowest point in your life became the beginning of your greatest personal transformation?There are easier ways to move out of your parents’ house. I do not recommend mine.I was nineteen years old. I had a boyfriend. His name was Chuck. We had been together...











